You’re So Bad Book Review

You’re So Bad — A Fake Dating Rom-Com That Completely Hooked Me 💕

I just finished You’re So Bad by Angela Casella, and let me tell you—this one was such a fun, feel-good escape that I didn’t want to put it down.

At the heart of the story is Shauna, who agrees to be a bridesmaid in what might be the most awkward wedding setup ever: her ex is marrying her former best friend. Instead of letting anyone see how much that betrayal affected her self-worth, she puts on a brave face… and that’s where things start to get interesting.

Enter Leonard—her grandma’s very unexpected solution. He’s rough around the edges, totally not what he seems, and somehow gets introduced as a pediatric surgeon (thanks, Grandma 😅). Their fake relationship quickly spirals into a series of hilarious, chaotic, and surprisingly heartfelt moments. The chemistry between Shauna and Leonard is so entertaining to watch unfold, especially as the “fake” part starts to blur.

What I really loved about this book is that it’s more than just a rom-com. Yes, it has all the fun tropes—fake dating, bad boy vibes, revenge energy—but it also weaves in deeper themes like healing after betrayal, rediscovering your worth, and finding unexpected family in the people around you. The addition of a runaway teen trying to escape a tough foster care situation adds another emotional layer that gives the story more heart and purpose.

And can we talk about the side characters? Between the supportive friends, quirky grandma, and even a few lovable pets, the whole world feels warm and full of life. It’s the kind of story that makes you laugh, swoon a little, and root hard for everyone to find their happy ending.

Overall, this was such an engaging read—funny, emotional, and just the right amount of messy. If you love fake dating romances with a little bite, a lot of heart, and characters you won’t forget, this one is definitely worth picking up. I already know I’ll be reading more from this author. 

Midweek views

 

Hello, my friends. Happy Wednesday morning 🌤️

I am feeling so much better today, and let me just say—I am incredibly grateful for that. Yesterday had a bit of a rough start. I ended up getting sick at work, and for a little while there, I really thought I might have to pack it up and head home early. I’m still not entirely sure what caused it, but I have a feeling it might be related to my medication. Thankfully, I took a Zofran for the nausea, and it worked pretty quickly. That relief was everything in the moment.

Even though I wasn’t feeling my best, I pushed through and made it to the end of my shift. I ended the day with seven saves—not my strongest day, but honestly, I will take it. Especially considering I also handled several special handling calls, which may not bring in as much, but they still count for something. By the time 4:00 p.m. rolled around, I was more than ready to head home and rest.

But the day didn’t end there—instead, it turned into something really sweet.

Later that evening, we headed out to the Marlow baseball fields to watch Lane and Brooks play… against each other, which made it extra fun. There was one moment that absolutely cracked me up. I had been sitting on one side near the opposing team’s dugout when Brooks spotted me and called out, asking what I was doing over there and telling me I should be on his side. I thought, well now… I didn’t realize I was being monitored so closely by a five-year-old! 😄

A little while later, I moved over to the other side to visit with Blake and Jessica, and Hattie went off to play on the swings. Not long after, Brooks noticed my empty seat and asked where I had gone. When he found out I had wandered off, he seemed very concerned until it was explained to him. Later, I told him I had another grandson playing on the other team, and that’s why I had been over there. His little “oh, okay” made it all make sense to him. These babies—they just melt my heart.

Moments like that really make everything else fade into the background.

Now here we are—Wednesday morning, 6:40 a.m., and I’m on my way to work. Today is going to be a shorter day for me since I’m leaving at noon, and I’m really looking forward to that. We had originally planned to go to the doctor, but those plans changed, so instead I’m going to take care of a few errands.

First stop will be returning my Skechers—they’re just a bit too big, so back they go. After that, I’ll be picking up Mr. C from Brody and Savannah’s, and we’ll head to the tag agency to get his license taken care of since it expired at the end of February. Somewhere in there, I’m sure we’ll just enjoy some time together, which he already seems excited about—and honestly, so am I.

Before I fully settle into the afternoon, I’ve got a few small but important things I want to accomplish:

• Call PikePass and pay my outstanding balance (and prepare myself for the inevitable hold time 🙃)  

• Refill my medication organizer so I can stay on track a little easier  

• Sit down and write a letter  

Nothing too overwhelming—just enough to feel productive while still keeping the day gentle.

For now, I might swing by Sonic and grab a drink to help carry me through the morning hours. Sometimes it’s the little things, right?

Overall, I’m just thankful today—to be feeling better, to have had such a sweet evening with family, and to have a slower afternoon ahead with someone I love.

And that feels like more than enough 💛

Food Compilation for March

Fish and fry’s 

Loaded baked potato fry Rib Crib.

Club sandwich 

Chicken fried steak

Stew

Iced coffee so yummy

Subway sandwich 

Cheesy pasta

Roast and veggies with mashed potatoes 

Mexican platter

Club sandwich 

Strawberry Shake

Meatloaf, green beans and mashed pot 

Max birthday cookie

Crockpot chicken and stuffing with vegetables 

I have been forgetting to take pictures of our food we eat. Am going to try to remember to snap more photos of our meals. It’s a nice reminder of what we enjoyed for the month. Especially if we ate anything not on our normal rotation. We normally eat the same foods always. Mr. C. and I have totally different taste in food. He’s not one to try new foods very often.

 

Max’s Birthday Party

A Slow Sunday, Sweet Moments & a Windy Birthday Party

Sunday turned out to be one of those slow, easygoing days that you don’t always plan for—but end up appreciating anyway.

I stayed home with Mr. C., and we decided to make a little mid-morning run into Marlow. We stopped by Sonic for something to eat, then swung into Dollar General to grab a gift bag for Max’s birthday. While I was there, I also picked up a few energy drinks for the workweek ahead—just trying to make our errands count while we were already out and about.

Once we made it back home, the rest of the morning and early afternoon was all about relaxing. We finished up the latest season of Virgin River, which I’ll admit—I almost gave up on. I had told Luther last weekend that I was getting a little bored with the same storyline about Doc possibly losing his license. It felt like it just kept circling back. But I’m really glad I stuck with it, because the season ended up being pretty good. Now, I’m still not a big fan of cliffhangers, but I get it—they’ve got to keep us coming back somehow.

Later in the afternoon, we headed over to Brody and Savannah’s to watch the kids for a bit while Savannah ran to the ballpark to pick up Lane’s T-ball outfit. When she got back, she shared something that honestly sounded like a mess. Apparently, there’s some kind of situation involving baseball season passes—money that was supposed to be turned in never made it where it needed to go, and now a police report has been filed.

Savannah was wondering if Marlow Baseball might still honor the passes, even though they never received the funds. And while I understand why everyone would hope for that, I just don’t see how that would be fair or realistic. If the money never made it to them, it seems like the responsibility would fall back on the Rush Springs side of things. It’s an unfortunate situation all around, and I do hope they’re able to recover the money.

By mid-afternoon, it was time for me to head out again—this time to get ready for Max’s birthday party. I made a quick stop at Ross to pick up a few extra things for him. I had already gotten him a big toy truck filled with smaller vehicles, a little Bluey swimming pool, some snacks, and candy. But I couldn’t resist adding a few more things—three summer outfits and a couple of Superman figurines I thought he’d enjoy.

I also picked up pizzas on the way—two cheese and one pepperoni—per Michelle’s request.

The party was at Douglas Park, and I got there around 4:00. Some folks were already there, and the kids were having a good time on the playground. I’ll be honest—situations like that can still feel a little awkward with everything that’s happened between Aaron and Michelle. But at the end of the day, I remind myself that I’m there for Max and Clifford. They’re my grandsons, and I’m going to show up for them every chance I get.

The party itself went really well. Michelle chose a Bluey theme, which was absolutely perfect, though the Oklahoma wind definitely tried to steal the show. But that’s March for you—if it’s not windy, something’s wrong!

I stayed for about an hour and fifteen minutes and got to watch Max open his presents, which is always my favorite part. I also heard that Clifford is going on a field trip to the science museum in Oklahoma City, so I gave him a little $7 for spending money. It wasn’t much, but I wanted him to have something.

Before I left, I made sure to get hugs from Max and Clifford—and even Angel gave me one. Those moments mean more than anything. I also took a second to talk to Wesley and told him that if he ever has a wrestling tournament, to let his mama know to call me. I’d love to come watch him. Whether that happens or not, at least he knows I’m cheering him on.

On my way home, I stopped by Wendy’s to grab Luther something to eat, and I picked up a little chicken nugget kid’s meal for myself.

All in all, it was a simple day—but a full one in its own way. The kind of day that reminds me that even in the middle of ordinary moments, there’s still plenty to be grateful for.

Weekend at Home

                                    Slow Saturday, Full Heart

Hello and happy, easy Saturday, my friend.  

This weekend, I made a very intentional choice—to stay home with Mr. C. Not because I had to, but because I wanted to. With my trip coming up soon, it just felt important to slow down and soak up some time together. And honestly? It was exactly what I needed.

We started the morning nice and easy, curled up watching a couple of movies. No rushing, no big plans—just being. Somewhere in between, we got a little productive too, knocking out some housework and making the space feel good again.

Breakfast was simple but perfect. I went the cozy route with pancakes, and Mr. C opted for hot links—very on brand for both of us. After that, we started pulling together ingredients for an early lunch because I had been craving a good, homemade meatloaf for a couple of days now. And let me tell you… we have a secret weapon in this house—a can of meatloaf fixing (not even sure the brand), but it works every single time. We had everything assembled by around 10-ish, already looking forward to meatloaf, mashed potatoes, and green beans. A true comfort meal.

The rest of the day was a mix of TV and me sneaking away to the guest bedroom to start organizing for my trip. I’m really trying to do better this time—not overpack like I’ve done my whole life. I’ve realized it actually gives me anxiety having too much stuff I don’t even use. So today, I focused on getting my liquids together—shampoo, conditioner, makeup—all in one place so I’m not scrambling at the last minute. Progress, not perfection.

I do still think I need to pick up a pajama set. The one I had in mind is definitely more winter than spring, and with April weather coming, I already know I’d be too warm. So that’s one small thing left to figure out.

I was also invited by my friend Nancy to go see a musician perform in Medicine Park tonight, which honestly sounded like a really nice outing. But I made the choice to stay in. Driving at night just isn’t something I’m comfortable with these days, and I’ve learned to listen to that instead of pushing through. There will be other nights, other chances.

And so here I am—ending the day feeling content, grounded, and grateful. It wasn’t anything big or fancy, just a simple day at home. But sometimes those are the ones that fill your heart the most.

Thank you so much for stopping by and spending a little piece of your day with me. My life may be simple, but it is full of blessings—and I’m so grateful you’re here to share in it.

Until next time 🤍

Buying New Refrigerator at Lowes

A Midweek Errand Turned Sweet Memory

Happy Wednesday, friends!

Today turned out to be one of those unexpectedly full and meaningful days—the kind where you set out to simply check something off your list, and it ends up being a little more special than you planned.

Work was good today, and somewhere in between helping members and staying on track, I found myself browsing refrigerator sales at Lowe’s. Wouldn’t you know it—they were running a really good sale… but of course, it was ending today. Isn’t that always the way? So, I made a quick decision, let Mr. C know my plan, and decided that after work, I was heading to Lawton to get that refrigerator bought and taken care of.

Now, Mr. C did have one request—and honestly, I don’t blame him. He asked if I could find someone to ride with me since he doesn’t love the idea of me being in Lawton in the evening by myself. It has gotten a bit uneasy over there at night, especially with the nearby army base and everything going on. So, I called my cousin Brenda, and she was happy to go along.

Well… here’s where things get a little funny.

I picked Brenda up, and as we were backing out of her driveway, she casually mentioned that Jeff was fine with her going on her birthday. Y’all—I completely forgot it was her birthday! I stopped the car right then and there and told her, “Get out! You are not going with me—it’s your birthday!” We both had a good laugh, but she insisted on coming anyway. All she asked was that we make it back by 6:30 so she could still enjoy her birthday dinner that Jeff was making.

So off we went!

Our trip to Lowe’s was quick and smooth. I went in, told the associate exactly which refrigerator I wanted, and got everything handled. I decided to split the payment—half cash, half on a card—and also added the five-year warranty for a little peace of mind. Delivery is set for Friday, and I can already feel what a relief that will be.

This purchase has been a long time coming. The refrigerator we’ve had has lasted an incredible 32 years, and while it has served us well, we could definitely tell this past year that it was struggling. It feels good to finally take care of it, even if 2026 has already brought its fair share of big expenses for us.

But I keep reminding myself—these are investments in our home, and once this is done, we should be in a much better place for a while.

After Lowe’s, I asked Brenda if we had just enough time to swing by Meridian so I could grab an iced coffee—my little treat. Normally, she always says no, but today she surprised me! She had recently tried a salted caramel iced coffee at work and loved it, so we both decided to get one.

And let me tell you—it hit the spot. It had been a while since I had treated myself to one like that, and it made for the perfect little midweek pick-me-up.

We made it back to her house at 6:39—which, if you ask me, still counts as on time thanks to a little girl math. Jeff was there cooking her birthday dinner, and I was just happy we made it back quickly enough for her to enjoy the rest of her evening.

All in all, it was a simple trip—but one filled with laughter, good conversation, a sweet treat, and a little unexpected birthday memory with my cousin.

Sometimes those ordinary days turn into the ones you remember the most.

I hope your week is treating you well and that you’re finding little moments of joy in the middle of your everyday errands. 💛

Book Review EMP Silent Grid

                                                     📚 Book Review: EMP Silent Grid by William Stone

If you enjoy high-stakes survival stories packed with tension, heart, and unexpected twists, EMP Silent Grid by William Stone is one of those books that will absolutely pull you in—and not let go.

At the heart of the story is Lindy, a grandmother who has spent over 40 years preparing for the unthinkable: a complete collapse of the electrical grid caused by an EMP (electromagnetic pulse). While many people might consider that kind of preparation extreme, Lindy has always believed it’s better to be ready than sorry. Over the years, she has passed those survival skills down to her daughter, Megan—teaching her everything from reading maps and traveling undetected to starting a fire without modern tools.

That preparation becomes critical when the unthinkable finally happens.

⚡ Plot Overview (No Major Spoilers)

When the grid suddenly goes down, chaos spreads quickly. At the time, Lindy is caring for her grandchildren, Sierra and Tyler, and takes them on what should be a simple outing to the zoo. Meanwhile, Megan and her husband Jake are over 80 miles away at a resort, trying to enjoy a rare getaway—though Megan can’t quite shake her uneasiness about being so far from her mother and children.

When the EMP hits, their worlds are instantly turned upside down.

What follows is a gripping, emotional journey as both groups—Lindy with the children, and Megan and Jake—must navigate a dangerous, unfamiliar landscape to find their way back to safety. The story alternates between their perspectives, building tension as each faces different threats and obstacles.

🔥 Themes & What Stands Out

One of the most compelling elements of this book is the emphasis on preparedness and generational knowledge. Lindy isn’t just a “prepper”—she represents foresight, resilience, and the idea that survival is as much about mindset as it is about skill.

The book also explores:

• Family bonds under pressure
• Trusting your instincts
• How quickly society can unravel without modern conveniences
• The strength found in ordinary people during extraordinary circumstances

And let’s be honest—this one is intense. There are multiple moments where the tension ramps up so much that you almost have to step away for a breather… only to come right back because you need to know what happens next.

📖 Writing Style & Pacing

William Stone does a great job keeping the pacing tight and engaging. The chapters often end on mini cliffhangers, which makes it incredibly hard to put down. The alternating viewpoints add depth and urgency, giving readers a full picture of the unfolding crisis.

It’s one of those books where you tell yourself, “Just one more chapter,” and suddenly an hour has gone by.

⭐ My Rating & Recommendation

⭐ 5 out of 5 stars

This is an easy five-star read for me. The combination of suspense, emotional depth, and constant plot twists made it a truly memorable experience.

I would absolutely recommend EMP Silent Grid to readers who:

• Love survival or post-disaster fiction
• Enjoy strong family-centered stories
• Appreciate fast-paced plots with lots of twists and turns
• Don’t mind a story that keeps your heart racing

💭 Final Thoughts

What really stayed with me after finishing this book was the question: Would I be prepared? Lindy’s character makes you reflect on how dependent we are on modern systems—and how quickly everything could change.

If you’re looking for a book that will keep you on edge, make you think, and pull you into a world where every decision matters, this one is definitely worth picking up.