Wednesday Ramblings

Wednesday Ramblings & Birthday Prep

Good morning, friends!

It’s 6:35 a.m., and I’m on my way to work. I don’t have to be there until 7:00, but I always leave a little early—because life loves a surprise, and I do not. Plus, I like having those few quiet minutes to get my system up and running and head to the break room to fill up my water container before the phones start ringing. A prepared girl is a peaceful girl.

Last night I finished The Apartment Sitter by Paige Brooks and oh my goodness… it was so good. The kind of book that makes you stay up later than you meant to and then think about it while brushing your teeth. I already know I’ll be looking into more of her books.

Now that we’re smack in the middle of the week, I’ve shifted into party-planning mode. Mr. C’s birthday cookout is this Sunday, and you know I love a good celebration. I’ve been making my list, checking it twice, and trying to get everything organized so the day can just be fun instead of frantic.

We’re keeping it classic cookout style:

🛒 Birthday Cookout Grocery List

Meats:

• Steaks
• Smoked sausage
• Hot links
• Hamburgers
• Hot dogs

Sides:

• Baked beans
• Potato salad

Extras I’m leaning toward making:

• Jalapeño poppers
• Bacon-wrapped little smokies

And of course, I’m ordering him a cupcake cake from Walmart because birthdays require cake. Period.

On top of party prep, I’m planning to tackle my taxes this weekend. I’ve got everything gathered—I just need to sit down and actually do it. I’m thinking Sunday  will be the day. Say a little prayer for my patience.

Something else on my heart this morning is my son, Aaron. He’s going through a hard patch, and as a mama, that helpless feeling is heavy. You want to fix it. You want to say the magic words that make it click. But sometimes they just have to walk through it themselves. I’m praying he finds his way out of his own head and into some peace soon. If you’re the praying type, we’ll take all the good thoughts.

In happier planning news, I’ve got a suitcase open for New York City. It’s too early to fully pack since I’m still wearing half the clothes I want to take, but I can start organizing. Makeup, duplicate chargers (because I never take my good ones from the house!), and deciding what I can fit into a carry-on and backpack. I’m determined to leave room for souvenirs.

Tomorrow our vice president, Stephanie, and other important folks will be at work. That means no scrolling, no sneaking in a few pages on my iPad between calls. Maybe that’s exactly what I need to focus in and hit my daily goal of 12 saves. Sometimes a little supervision is the push we didn’t know we needed.

And yes, there are days I wish I were independently wealthy and didn’t have to clock in anywhere. But since I’m not, I’ll keep showing up and doing my best. Who knows—maybe one day I’ll stumble into the perfect little side hustle. For now, I’ll just keep building what I can, one blog post at a time.

Today my sweet hubby is driving me to work, which I love. It gives me time to think, to type, and to share this little slice of my Wednesday with you.

Thanks for stopping by, friends. I hope your Wednesday is productive and full of love.

Skin Issues

 

                 When Your Skin Rebels: My Experience with Perioral Dermatitis

Lately, my skin has decided to throw a little tantrum.

Right around my mouth and nose, I started noticing redness. Then came the itching. Then the burning. Not intense, but enough to be uncomfortable — like my skin was constantly irritated and trying to tell me something.

If you’ve ever dealt with Perioral dermatitis, you know it’s not just a breakout. It’s a persistent, inflamed rash that shows up most often around the mouth (and sometimes the nose and eyes). It can look like small red bumps, dry patches, or irritated skin that just won’t calm down.

At first, I thought I was helping it.

I had a steroid cream and it seemed like it was improving things — temporarily. But when I went to see Dr. Angie, she gently let me know that steroids were actually not the right move for this condition. In fact, steroid creams can make perioral dermatitis worse over time, even if they give short-term relief.

So off to the pharmacy I went with a new prescription in hand and a new plan.

And honestly? That visit was a turning point.

What Causes Perioral Dermatitis?

From what I’ve learned, perioral dermatitis can be triggered by several things:

• Overuse of topical steroid creams
• Heavy facial creams or occlusive skincare products
• Harsh cleansers or over-exfoliating
• Fluoridated toothpaste (in some cases)
• Hormonal fluctuations
• Makeup overload
• Stress (because of course it is)

Sometimes it’s not just one thing — it’s a combination. For me, using that steroid cream thinking I was “fixing” it may have actually been fueling the fire.

What I’m Doing Differently

Right now, I’m keeping things very simple.

• I’m washing my face with a gentle, non-irritating cleanser instead of my usual active products.
• I’ve completely stopped wearing makeup. As much as I’d love to cover the redness, I don’t want to aggravate it.
• I’m following the prescription Dr. Angie gave me consistently.
• I’m resisting the urge to try every trending skincare product on the internet.

And let me tell you — sometimes doing less is the hardest part.

Gentle Cleansing Ideas That Can Help

If you’re dealing with this too, here are some dermatologist-approved style approaches that are generally recommended:

1. Use a Mild Cleanser

Look for fragrance-free, non-foaming cleansers. Gentle options people often tolerate well include brands like:

• CeraVe Hydrating Facial Cleanser
• Vanicream Gentle Facial Cleanser
• La Roche-Posay Toleriane Hydrating Gentle Cleanser

The goal is to cleanse without stripping your skin barrier.

2. Skip the Actives

Now is not the time for:

• Retinol
• Vitamin C
• Exfoliating acids
• Scrubs

Let your skin rest.

3. Choose Lightweight Moisture

If your skin feels dry, use a simple, fragrance-free moisturizer. Sometimes less truly is more.

How to Soothe It (Beyond Prescription Medicine)

While medication helps treat the inflammation, there are comfort strategies that can make daily life easier:

• Use lukewarm water — hot water can increase redness.
• Pat dry with a soft towel instead of rubbing.
• Avoid heavy creams and thick occlusives.
• Keep your hands off your face (harder than it sounds).
• Consider switching to a mild toothpaste if you suspect irritation.
• Reduce stress where you can — even a short walk or quiet time helps.

And maybe most importantly: be patient.

Perioral dermatitis doesn’t clear overnight. Sometimes it actually flares when you stop steroids before it improves. That can be frustrating, but it’s part of the healing process.

The Emotional Side of It

There’s something vulnerable about having a visible skin condition. Even if it’s mild, it’s on your face. It’s the first thing you see in the mirror.

Choosing not to wear makeup right now isn’t easy — but I’m reminding myself that healing matters more than covering it up. This is temporary. My skin is adjusting. And I’m learning to treat it more gently instead of attacking it.

Sometimes our skin forces us to slow down.

And maybe that’s not the worst thing.